The Parish Visitor

                               The Parish Visitor

                   

                       The newsletter of the First Reformed Church in Fishkill, NY

 

                                               

                                                                December  2011

 

 

 

Dear Friends,

 

A few nights ago the Hudson Valley sunset was a mix of dazzling pinks and golds  that were as beautiful on the eastern horizon as they were in the western sky. As I walked through the living room, the beauty caught my eye and I kept going from one side of the house to the other so that I wouldn’t miss any of it.

 

How much easier if I had just stepped outside and let the beauty of the evening light surround me!

 

How much easier it would be if we would let the beauty and grace of the Season of Advent surround us. Often we catch only glimpses of it because our lives are filled with many other things. While we all have the daily tasks we need to do just to keep order in our lives,  our hunger for the beauty and grace keeps tugging at us, calling us to taste and see that the Lord is good. So we snack on little morsels of grace, thinking this will satisfy us. But what we really need is to be fully immersed in the Light of the World. To step into God’s presence and let God’s beauty surround us, uphold us and renew us – whether it’s for a moment, an hour, a day, a lifetime…

 

As we begin this new year of the church calendar, I pray we will invite the Light of the World to fill our lives, our hearts, our church, and our homes. To flood our lives with such beauty and goodness that it will overflow and bring Light to our world, so loved by God.

 

Advent blessings and Christmas Light,

 

 

 

P.S. As we prepare to celebrate Christmas, let us prayerfully consider extending the

joy to others with our special offering to The Transformation Life Center in West Park,

  NY.

 

  


DECEMBER  CALENDAR

1

Choir - 7pm

15

Choir - 7pm

 

3

Chime Choir - 10am

17

Advent Pot Luck Dinner - 5:30pm  (*)

4

Worship - Communion - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15 am

Hanging of the Greens (*)

18

Worship - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

6

Worship & Music Committee - 11am

21

Bible Study - 10am

7

Bible Study - 10am

22

Choir - 7pm

8

Choir - 7pm

24

Christmas Eve Service - 8pm

11

Worship

Sunday School - 10:15 am

Chime Choir - 11:30 am 

25

Worship - Communion -10am

 

 

13

Consistory - 7:15pm

28

Bible Study - 10am

14

Bible Study - 10am

30

DCCH Shelter Meal   (*)

     

 

 The Holidays are herePlease plan to stay a little longer on Sunday, December 4th after coffee hour to join

  in the Hanging of the Greens.  There’s lots to do and the more helpers we have, the more fun it becomes..

 

 Caroling to our homebound - Would you like to share some Christmas cheer with our homebound church

 family members? We will be caroling to our homebound on Sunday, Dec.  11 at 2 pm. We will car pool from

 the DuBois House and return for a light supper.  Please join us! Everyone is welcome!  There will be a

 sign-up sheet outside Fellowship Hall.     

 

 Advent Pot Luck Dinner  - “The Christmas Story & Song” will be held on Saturday, Dec. 17 at 5:30pm in  

 Fellowship Hall. Dinner will be followed by singing of familiar Christmas carols along with the reading of the

 Christmas story by the children. Please mark your calendars and plan to  join us!   

 

 

DCCH Shelter Meal  

We would like to thank everyone who helped us feed the homeless on October 28. As always your help

and generosity is greatly appreciated.

We will be feeding the homeless again on Friday, December 30. We know how busy everyone will be during the holidays, so we asked the consistory if they would provide the funds for lasagna, salad and bread. They have agreed to this and for that we are grateful. We will be needing dessert and we thought Christmas cookies would be nice. When you are baking your cookies if you could make and extra dozen or two for the homeless it would be appreciated.

If you are able to help, please contact one of us. The cookies can be left in the DuBois house anytime before Friday, December 30 at 3pm.

Merry Christmas! 

Linda Rush and Nellie Briggs     

 

If you or anyone you know needs, on a temporary basis, a ride to a doctor,  a meal delivered, a friendly supportive visit or phone call , please  call a  deacon  closest to you:

 

     Linda Baron (evenings), Wappingers                      Celeste Rudberg, Wappingers/East Fishkill

    Barbara Harty, Wappingers                                     Stan Saya, Wappingers

    John Houston, Hopewell Junction                            Karen Twohig, Beacon 

 

 

COFFEE HOUR

 

 

 

In the list of dates and names below, the first name on the list serves as the host. This means calling the other names on the list for that day and seeing who will bring what, including juice and milk.

 If someone on the list has a commitment before or after worship, than the group can make arrangements as to who will set up, who will keep the creamer pitcher full and who will clean up.

 Maisie Minot makes sure the coffeepots are on and full. Those serving make sure the coffee pots are cleaned and all the tables and counters wiped down with the water/bleach mixture found in the spray bottle. Please take the dirty dish towels home for a wash and bring them back the next week.

If you are not able to do the coffee hour on your scheduled date, please find a replacement and call the church office with the name of your replacement. If you have any concerns regarding your availability at this time to do coffee hour due to health or other large issues, please contact Karen Twohig.

If anyone plans to bring food to coffee hour for a special occasion, please notify the host for that date. Thanks to everyone for your continued hospitality!

 

DECEMBER                                                      JANUARY 

   4  H - Hoffman, Nolting, Porter                        1  New Year’s Day - Twohig - Set-up & clean-up 

 11  H - Falcone, Jones-Wynn, Crawford                Please bring a few left over goodies to share!          

 18  H - Covell, Sanders, Carruthers                   8  H - Wright, Alexander, Silverstein                           

 25  - Christmas - No Coffee Hour                   15  H - Landanno, Lane, Houston     

                                                                                                             22  H -  Kayson, Rodriguez, Rush                                                                                                                             

                                                                                                             29  H -  Baron, Harty, Sanders 

 

 

Sing Christmas Music with the residents of Hedgewood Adult Home  in Beacon on Wednesday, Dec.7 at 2pm. Everyone is welcome!  Car pooling from the DuBois House is at 1:30pm. We will bring cookies to serve the residents. If you are not able to join us, but would like to contribute cookies, you may leave them in the church office before 1:30.  

 

Christmas Remembrances  for our home bound members will be prepared by the women of the church on Wednesday, Dec.14. We will meet in the DuBois House Parlor at 1pm. Please bring cookies, candies, fruit and goodies for diabetics. If you can’t come, you may leave donations of goodies at the church office before the meeting.  Join us for fun and fellowship. Thank You! 

 

 

The Stewardship Committee would like to thank the Consistory for their contributions of delicious casseroles and breads for the Consecration Sunday brunch. Thanks to Connie Kayson for providing the lovely table centerpieces. We also thank those who helped to set up and clean up, too numerous to mention by name lest we overlook someone!  You know who you are; we couldn’t have done it without you. We feel truly blessed!

                                                                                 Stewardship Committee

                                                                                 Linda Baron, Jan Utter, Sue Wynn, Celeste Rudberg    

 

Second Annual ASPCA Drive -  Please donate your new or gently used, medium to large sized bath towels and/or blankets, for use in their no-kill animal shelter. Toys and food for cats and dogs may also be donated. Please use the boxes in the lobby of the Education Building for your donations. Thank you!     

 

Notes from November Consistory Meeting

 

· Deacon Barbara Harty led devotions using a story about a captain and a seaman arguing over whose command would be obeyed. It was a reminder that God’s love, God’s light, will shine on those big rocks in our lives and help guide us on the best path. Jesus said, “I am the Light of the world.”  John 9:5.

· Treasurer’s Operating Report shows October revenues totaling $14,983.20 and expenses totaling $26,794.46.

· The Hanging of the Greens will be December 4, following coffee hour.

· Christmas Caroling will be Sunday, December 11th starting at 2pm.   

· Christmas Eve worship is at 8pm and Christmas Day worship at 10am.

· Food Pantry has received numerous food and money donations from many local businesses and community people. The Pantry is able to give turkeys, roasting chickens or canned ham, to all clients for the holidays.

· A number of people were not in worship on Consecration Sunday, so follow up letters have been sent out. Stewardship will make a final report at the beginning of December.

· The consistory will review the 2012 church calendar and discuss how and what events to hold based on leadership for the event. 

· Next regular Consistory meeting is December 13th, 7:15pm.

 

News from Children’s Community Services

 

    November is nearly behind us and it’s hard to believe we are in the Advent season!  Just to let you know about our November at CCS, I will point out some of the high points.

    We once again were able to offer Developmental Screenings for children in the program. We will offer this valuable service once again in the new year and I will be sure to let you know when that will be. I encourage you to let anyone with a child between the ages of 6 months and 5 years to take part in one of these screenings… all children have strengths and weaknesses and it is a great opportunity to learn ways to support development in any area that is needing to be strengthened.

    The children in the four year old class took a field trip to the Museum of the Hudson Highlands in Cornwall, NY on Friday, November 18. The program offered was “Tools, Toys, and Tales”. The focus was on how Native American children lived in our area 400 years ago. The staff did a wonderful job bringing it to the preschool level and the children seemed to enjoy the experience. They offer many programs to the public and have a very informative web site for anyone interested to explore.

   We did have a feast of Thanksgiving with all of the 3 and 4 year olds. The 4 year olds made biscuits and butter for all to share… we also nibbled on vegetables, corn muffins, cookies and apple juice. It was a really yummy time. There were several ½ days for the elementary age children and so the building was buzzing with activity.

One of the favorite things was taking some of the leftover pumpkins, walking into the woods and going

“Pumpkin chucking”… It was really fun to watch their faces!

   The Parent Association has planned a fundraiser for Friday, December 9th.  The evening will feature the children’s art work, baked goods for sale and a silent auction supported by local businesses. We are also offering Alps chocolate for sale for the Christmas season. Orders need to be received by the December 4th.

If you would like to order chocolate, please see Heather Hansen or Lisa Skorewicz.

                                                                                                    Enjoy the coming holiday…    

                                                                                                    Heather Hansen, Director

 

The Chrismon Tree

 

When we decorate our church for Christmas, the tree in the sanctuary is hung with varied and beautiful ornaments, called Chrismons. Chrismons are ornaments, but special ones, with designs which

 depict biblical teachings and events.

 Our Chrismons were made by church members, and are lovingly packed away and then brought out again to grace the tree each year. New ones have been made from time to time, and old ones repaired.

   Ascension Lutheran Church in Danville, Virginia, tells us that one of their long time members, Frances Kipps Spencer, began creating the Chrismons to decorate the tree in that church in 1957. She thought that a church tree should have ornaments special to the setting, and researched various early Christian symbols which would lend themselves to this use. For example, the Greek letters “Chi Rho”, are monograms for Christos, the Greek word for Christ, and became one of the earliest Chrismons. A few others are the fish, a well known early Christian symbol, the anchor, the crown, various styles of crosses, and the trefoil, symbolizing the trinity. The Chrismons are made in white, the liturgical color for Christmas, and gold, symbolizing the majesty of God.

   As her early designs were admired and well received, Ms. Spencer added others, some more complex and sophisticated. She wrote several books, explaining the meaning and construction of the Chrismons, and they became popular in churches in this country and elsewhere.

   Karon Perry tells us that our members began making Chrismons in the late 1970’s, at the suggestion of the pastor’s wife at the time, Mrs. Elliot. A group of members would get together, using a book which pictured different Chrismons, and work together to fashion them. A few years ago, a “Chrismon workshop” was held, to repair and replace some of them. We are blessed to have these heirlooms created for us by past and present members, to remind us in such a lovely way of the true meaning of Christmas.

 

 

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Wednesday Afternoon Book Study

February 1 – March 7

 

                     Earth –Wise

A Biblical Response to Environmental Issues,

                 By Calvin B. DeWitt

 

Earth-Wise is a Christian response to the environmental concerns that can sometimes overwhelm us all. Calvin DeWitt says our first response to these concerns is to gain a joyful positive attitude about our ability to work for good in the world: “Ours is not to grovel in the polluted gutters or to wring our hands over our sins. Instead we are called to go about reclaiming creation for our Lord, knowing that ‘the earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it’ (Psalm 24.1) and that we may eagerly do so out of joyful gratitude for God’s great gift of salvation.”

 

     Everyone is invited to join this 6 week study, beginning

           Wednesday, February 1st, 4:30 – 6:30 pm.

Please sign up in the Ed Building so books may be ordered.

If you have questions, please speak with Pastor Gloria.

 

 

                                        Church Membership Class

 

Belonging is the focus on our class designed for those interested in membership at

First Reformed Church of Fishkill. We will talk about:

                   belonging to God

                   belonging to the Reformed Church in America, and

                   belonging to First Reformed Church of Fishkill.

 

The class will meet on three Sundays in February, following coffee hour, in the DuBois House Parlor. The tentative schedule is February 5, 19 & 26.

 

If you are interested, please complete the information sheet available on the table in the sanctuary or in the DuBois House and return to the church office. Please contact Pastor Gloria with any questions or concerns.           

 

BSA Troop 65

Venture Crew 65

First Reformed Church

           Fishkill, New York

 
                                                                                                                                                

                                              

                                            December News

 

     The autumn line-up of events and activities for Troop & Crew 65 continued in full swing last month.

       On November 5th, 7 scouts and 5 adults embarked on a 10 mile long bike hike along the Hudson

   Valley Rail Trail from Highland to Poughkeepsie. Over the 10 mile course, Scouts worked on their

   Orienteering skills and put their bike safety skills to the test, all the while having a great time.

        November 12th at the New York Military Academy in Cornwall was the setting for the Hudson

   Valley Councils “University of Scouting”.  Three Crew members attended and completed leader

   training for Crews, otherwise known as ILSC. This training will then be taught to the rest of the Crew

   members at the December campout. This training is part of the Journey to Excellence program that

   replaces the Quality unit award. The Crew is on track to obtain the Journey to Excellence award this

   year as the Crew has been a Quality Unit since 2007, the year the Crew was founded.

        Three leaders from the Venture Crew went to the University of Scouting as well. For the adults the

   day offers a variety of classes for all types of scouting units; from how to’s on paperwork and computer

   programs to outdoor skills, knots and many ideas to bring back to ones unit.

       The Troop and Venture Crew enjoyed a day of leaf raking and fun on November 19th – cleaning up

   the church yard, Memorial garden and cemetery.

      Popcorn distribution is in full swing and plans are being made for a December cabin campout at

   Camp Nooteeming in Pleasant Valley.

      Happy Holidays to All from Boy Scout Troop & Venture Crew 65!

      If you would like more information regarding scouting opportunities, activities, or service projects,

    Please check out our website at  www.troop65fishkill.scoutlander.com  or contact Ed Tucholski,

    Scoutmaster, or Venture Crew Advisor Stacey Tucholski.

 

      Chartered Organization:   First Reformed Church                1153  Main   Street,   Fishkill,   New  York    12524

       Meetings:     Monday  Evenings   7:00-8:30  PM  during  the school year 

                             Brinkerhoff  Elementary School                          16  Wedgewood  Road   Fishkill,  New York  12524

                             Southern Dutchess & Putnam Sportsman’s Club     Cedar Hill Road   Wappingers Falls, NY  12590 

 

 Croatia Update

   Ending well focus of our last month in Croatia

                                          By Nancy Titus

  The end.

  Perhaps that is a strange way to begin a column, but it is all I can think about these days as it is where we are headed in our Croatian mission. Only a few more days until we move. Only a few more classes to teach, only a few more coffees to attend, only a few more meetings, chance or planned, with friends.

 We all have numerous endings that we encounter in life. Some we euphemize to place the focus on the new thing ahead instead of the old thing past: New Year’s, commencement, retirement, eternal life with Christ. I am just that sort of an optimist who likes to look at the bright side of the new beginning just beyond the end. There is that aspect in this ending as well, but today I am stuck a bit as this end stares me in the face. Eric and I have done this enough in our years together that I know some of the dynamics our hearts will go through.

 As we sort through and pack up our stuff, we can’t help but try to evaluate our “success”: the things we think we did well and the things we know we did poorly. We will yearn for the chance to correct or to finish something we started or even launch a good project that was lost in the shuffle of other things. But, we will shut the door of our thinking and our hearts to those possibilities because we are at the end. There is always more work to be done here – but not by us.

The end.

We try to prepare for the things we know we will miss by indulging in them now. We traveled the Croatian coast and a famous national park and reveled in their beauty. We think more about the little things we like: like the sound of the church bells and the tastes from the bakery down the street. We take extra time with people we meet because we just want to enjoy them more.

We have been through the uncomfortable task of telling everyone we are leaving. That is a hard part, and I am glad it is over, but the shock and sadness in the reactions of others gives us a glimpse of the greater sadness that is coming our way, when we truly have to say good-bye.

We know there will be tears because God has knit us together with His people here. Disentangling our hearts from those we have grown with over the course of the last five and a half years is painful. If it were not, that would be a bad sign, a sign that we were not truly connected. So, we rejoice because we cry. We rejoice because we have reason to cry. Yet we cry.

Sure, we know relationships don’t have to end just because miles or an ocean separates us. Certainly, the fact that you are reading this attests to the truth that love and care between brothers and sisters in the Body of Christ continues. After all, many of you are those to whom we had to say tearful good-byes in order to go to Croatia in the first place. Electronic communication has become so easy and inexpensive and a great way to stay connected. Still it will not be the same.

The end.

I don’t particularly like those words, not when they come at the end of a book I love or a movie I enjoy. I really don’t like them when they come attached to a meaningful job or close working relationships.

As we enter our last month here in Croatia, we want to do it well, to be good stewards of the gifts God has given which have lead us to this place. Our motive has a selfish side because, of course, we want people to think of us in positive terms. However, even more than that, we want our service to bring glory to God here at its end even as we have longed for that every day since we arrived.

Our Croatia tenure: June 2006 to December 2011. The only statement important is to hear from God: “Well done, good and faithful servants!”

 

Eric and Nancy Titus are RCA missionaries in Osijek, Croatia, where they work at the Evangelical Theological Seminary and with the Reformed Christian Church in Croatia. They will end their service in December 2011. They have three children: Samuel, 17, Valerie, 13, and Penny, 11.

 

First Reformed Church of Fishkill

1153 Main Street

Fishkill, NY  12524

www.fishkillreformed.org  

 

 

Our special Christmas offering will go in its entirety to The Transformation Life Center (TLC).

Located across the river in West Park, NY, it provides services of care by demonstrating the love of

   Christ to men with life-controlling issues. TLC is a discipleship program that maintains an atmosphere

   which fosters and nurtures the spiritual life of residents so they will come to know Christ and one day,

   by the Spirit, make Christ known to others. This is accomplished with a structured experience where

   residents work together to produce Christ-like character, wholesome attitudes and a stable lifestyle.

   Please use the special Christmas offering envelopes or memo checks, “Christmas, TLC.”