The Parish Visitor

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
                              

The Parish Visitor

 

The newsletter of the

First Reformed Church

Fishkill, New York

 

February 2012

 

                                     

 

Dear Friends,

 

We begin the month of February in the Church Season of Epiphany, proclaiming the good news that the one born in Bethlehem and named Jesus came into the world so that all might know the love and grace of God.

 

February is also when we see with our own eyes that the days are getting a wee bit longer and there is a small delight when we don’t have to flip a switch in the morning to see our way down the hall, or when we manage to get home before the street lights come on.  The extra light seems to lift our spirit and help drive away the doldrums.

 

For Jesus to be called the Light of the World is a brilliant example of how God uses the common things of life to teach us. Light drives away darkness. Light brings health and growth. Light illuminates our path. Light warms us.

 

February is also the month when the church calendar changes. February 22 marks the beginning of Lent with Ash Wednesday. Lent is a time when we seek to walk with Jesus as he turns his face toward Jerusalem and all that awaits him there. It is a time of reflection, repentance and self- discipline.

Ash Wednesday is so named because of the ancient tradition of ashes used as a sign of repentance and mourning. We have also adopted the tradition of burning the palm leaves from last Palm Sunday to create the ashes we will use this year. If you have a palm leaf you would like to donate, please drop it off by February 19th at the church office or bring it to church on Sunday.

 

The Light of the World has come. May our lives reflect this Light to the world during Epiphany, during Lent, and during all the seasons of our lives.

 

The grace and peace of Christ be with you,

 

 

FEBRUARY CALENDAR

1

Bible Study -10am

Book Study - 4:30pm

16

Choir - 7pm 

2

Choir - 7pm  

18

Consistory Retreat -  9am - 3pm

5

Worship - Communion  - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am 

Church Membership Class  (*)

19

Worship - 10am

Sunday School -10:15am

Congregational Meeting - Noon-2pm

7

Worship & Music Committee - 11am

21

Consistory - 7:15pm  

8

Bible Study - 10am

Book Study - 4:30pm

22

Ash Wednesday

Bible Study - 10am

Book Study - 4:30pm

Ash Wednesday Service - 7pm

Choir - 8pm

9

Choir - 7pm

26

Worship - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

Church Membership Class (*) 

11

Venture Crew 65 - Spaghetti Dinner (*)

 

28

Lenten Luncheon - Noon  (*)    

12

Worship -10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

29

Bible Study - 10am

Book Study - 4:30pm

15

Bible Study - 10am

Book Study - 4:30pm

 

 

     

 

 

 The Building and Grounds committee would like to thank, “Just Exteriors Plus Inc.” (http://justexteriors.com/), of Wappingers for a job well done.  Just Exteriors Plus Inc. recently finished installing new windows, siding and trim on the DuBois house and we could not be any happier. Because of these improvements, the building is much quieter inside, more comfortable, energy efficient, maintenance free, and of course, aesthetically pleasing. We would also like to thank all the congregational volunteers who worked on this successful project.      

              

 

 We, the “Women of the Church”, wish to thank all who have so generously supported “Socks for Hedgewood” at Christmas time.  Also with giving of greeting card fronts &  old calendars to be used in crafts, as well as 2012 calendars for residents in their rooms.  Connie Lacey beautifully accompanied us on the new piano and caroling was a joyous time with seven of us gals participating. It was a fun visit and ended with many cookies to share. Let’s plan for a spring visit to be with our Hedgewood friends once again.  

  

 

If you or anyone you know needs, on a temporary basis, a ride to a doctor,  a meal delivered, a friendly supportive visit or phone call , please  call a  deacon  closest to you:

                        Linda Baron (evenings), Wappingers                                   Celeste Rudberg, Wapp./East Fishkill

Barbara Harty, Wappingers                                                Stan Saya, Wappingers

John Houston, Hopewell Jct.                                               Karen Twohig, Beacon

                      

 

 

 

 

 

                              COFFEE HOUR             

    

 

 In the list of dates and names below, the first name on the list serves as the host. This means calling the other names on the list for that day and seeing who will bring what, including juice and milk.

 If someone on the list has a commitment before or after worship, than the group can make arrangements as to who will set up, who will keep the creamer pitcher full and who will clean up.

 Maisie Minot makes sure the coffeepots are on and full. Those serving make sure the coffee pots are cleaned and all the tables and counters wiped down with the water/bleach mixture found in the spray bottle. Please take the dirty dish towels home for a wash and bring them back the next week.

If you are not able to do the coffee hour on your scheduled date, please find a replacement and call the church office with the name of your replacement. If you have any concerns regarding your availability at this time to do coffee hour due to health or other large issues, please contact Karen Twohig.

   If anyone plans to bring food to coffee hour for a special occasion, please notify the host for that date. Thanks to everyone for your continued hospitality!  

 

FEBRUARY                                                                         MARCH                              

   5  Scout Sunday                                                                    4  H - Byers, Skinner, Gillert                                                     

       H - Boy Scout Troop 65 & Venture Crew 65             11 H - Twohig, H. Hansen, Schmidt

 12  H - Schallenberg, Lanni, Suggitt                                    18 H - Aronow, Rudberg, Carruthers

 19  H - Vasquez, Michealis, McGann                                    25 H - Doerr, Skorewicz, D. Hansen

 26  H - B, J & R VanVoorhis, Moseman

 

                                   

The Building and Grounds committee would like to give a great big THANK YOU to Karon and Roger Perry.  Karon and Roger have taken care of our Memorial Garden for over 30 years but must step down at this time. In caring for the garden, they have provided flowers, decorations and have maintained the grounds to the highest standards. Their dedication and commitment to the Memorial Garden has been unfaltering and a model of serving to us all. Replacing them will be difficult, but stepping up to the challenge is Karen and John Twohig. 

  

 

 

From the Worship & Music Committee - Please be reminded that large print bulletins and hymnals are available each Sunday from the ushers.

 

 

                

Lenten Luncheon Series - The Worship and Music Committee is pleased to bring you another Lenten Luncheon program. Bring your lunch and join us on Tuesdays at Noon in the DuBois House parlor. Coffee, tea and dessert will be provided. We will be using the book, “Mosiac” by Shane Stanford. There is a sign up sheet outside of Fellowship Hall. Attendance every week is not necessary, come when you can. We hope to have another great turnout!      

 

 

                                         Notes from January Consistory Meeting

 

·  Elder Don Porter led devotions based on Psalm 27, urging us to wait for the Lord, especially when we have questions and when we are fearful. Proverbs 1:7 tells us that “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.” As one year ends and a new one begins we would be wise to trust it all in God’s hands.  

·  The consistory completed the annual reports required by the Reformed Church in America and the Mid-Hudson Classis.

·  The steeple, bell tower and rooster weather vane will be repaired in the coming year. Estimated cost $110,000 - $112,000. Funds will come from: Capital Fund - $12,000, Investments - $70,000, Surplus in General Fund - $30,000.

·  Year end Treasurer’s report was received and 2012 Budget approved and will be presented at the Annual Congregational meeting, February 19th.

·  Consistory retreat will be held, February 18th.

·  RCA Mission Trip to Israel, March 12-24, has 21 people registered, including 6 from our church: Victor and Bonnie Chao, Jan Utter, Barbara Harty, Maryann Fellin and Pastor Gloria.

·  Next regular Consistory meeting is February 21st, 7:15pm.

                                                      

             

The Venture Crew Spaghetti Dinner will be held on Saturday, February 11th in the Fellowship Hall. The menu includes spaghetti, meatballs or sausage, salad, bread, dessert, and coffee, tea, water or soda. There will be two seatings: 5 to 6:30pm and 7 to 8:30pm. The cost is Adults: $7, Seniors: $6, Ages 3-10: $5 and younger children are free. Tickets will be for sale at the coffee hour on Feb. 5, or call Stacey Tucholski or Frank Giusto for tickets. Take out dinners will be available. Please let Stacey know if you want them. Proceeds will support the Crew activities, including awards, supplies and camping.

 

 

                  Wednesday Afternoon Book Study

                              February 1 – March 7

 

      Earth –Wise : A Guide to Hopeful Creation Care

                   By Calvin B. DeWitt

 

Earth-Wise is a Christian response to the environmental concerns that can sometimes overwhelm us all. Calvin DeWitt says our first response to these concerns is to gain a joyful positive attitude about our ability to work for good in the world: “Ours is not to grovel in the polluted gutters or to wring our hands over our sins. Instead we are called to go about reclaiming creation for our Lord, knowing that ‘the earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it’ (Psalm 24.1) and that we may eagerly do so out of joyful gratitude for God’s great gift of salvation.”

 

                   Everyone is invited to join this 6 week study, beginning Feb.1st, 4:30 - 6:30 pm.

                                           If you have questions, please speak with Pastor Gloria.

                                        

 

 

                                                                Church Membership Class

  

Belonging is the focus on our class designed for those interested in membership at

First Reformed Church of Fishkill.  We will talk about:

                      belonging to God

                 belonging to the Reformed Church in America, and

                belonging to First Reformed Church of Fishkill.

 

The class will meet on February 5, February 26 and March 4, following coffee hour, in the DuBois House Parlor.  If you are interested, please complete the information sheet available on the table in the sanctuary or in the DuBois House and return it to the church office. Please contact Pastor Gloria with any questions or concerns.            

 

 

 Treading Water with God: Caring for the Caregiver

 

 The School of Christian Living and Serving offers this half day seminar for those reaching out

  in friendship to support the home caregivers of their communities.       

          Instructor:  Veronica (Ronnie) Badowski

          Date:          Saturday, April 21, 9:30 – 11:30 am

          Location:    First Reformed Church, 1153 Main Street, Fishkill

          Tuition:      $20

  Additional course information and registration materials are available on the Fellowship Hall

  bulletin board.

                                                      

             

                                                             Sharing Board

 

The “Sharing Board”, located next to the big bulletin board in Fellowship Hall and in the

Food Pantry,  offers a site where material wants & needs are seen simultaneously.

Here’s how it works:

If you have an item to give:  Fill out two forms and tack them to the board.  One stays on that board and the other will be posted on the alternate board. Photos may also be posted.

If you need an item:  Fill out two of the forms and tack them up.  One will remain there and one will be posted on the alternate board.

When you notice an item you need or one you would like to donate, please call the phone number on the form. If you decide not to take the item, please return the form to the bulletin board for others who might be interested.

                                                           Guidelines

                    1.   All items must be clean and in good condition.

                    2.   The person who is receiving the item is responsible for picking it up.

                                  (unless the giver makes other arrangements.)

                    3.   Postings will remain on the board for one month.

                    4.  All items are free.       

 

  For more information about the Sharing Board, please contact Karen Twohig.                                       

 

 

 

 

BSA Troop 65

Venture Crew 65

First Reformed Church

           Fishkill, New York

 
                                                                                                                                                

                                              

                                           February News

 

   Troop & Crew 65 finished out 2011 and began the New Year with a full line up of activities and

   events.

 

   The Crew membership continues to grow with the addition of 5 new youth members. From

   December 9-11, 2011 the Crew went cabin camping at Camp Nooteeming in Pleasant Valley. Those

   5 new Crew members learned about youth leadership opportunities in the Crew, working together as

   a team, the importance of communication and having fun in a program called “Introduction to

   Leadership Skills for Crews” (ILSC). They made baked macaroni and cheese in a Dutch oven,

   chicken stir fry for dinner and cinnamon buns for dessert. The Crew helped the Troop learn about

   First Aid for rock climbing. Family Feud as the basis for the First Aid game, and all the scouts took  

   part in the learning experience.

 

   Crew 65 Vice President Amanda Giusto has completed all the requirements for the Venturing

   Silver Award, the highest award in the Venturing Program. She passed her Board of Review on

   November 30th and we look forward to a Court of Honor for her in the Spring.

 

   Troop 65 kicked off the New Year by volunteering to assist with a blood drive hosted by the

   First Reformed Church on January 3rd.  By the end of the day, 35 pints were collected.

 

   On January 7th, the Troop stayed overnight at the Inner Wall in New Paltz. All 19 scouts had a

   great time completing the requirements to receive their Rock Climbing merit badges.

 

   On January 21st, the Troop volunteered at the Dutchess District Eskimo Run. Scouts spent the

   snowy day testing Cubs on the trail to Webelos and the Arrow of Light Award. They also kept a fire

   burning for the parents of the Cubs and served hot chocolate to everyone who visited their station.

 

   If you would like more information regarding scouting opportunities, activities, or service

   projects, please check out our website at  www.troop65fishkill.scoutlander.com or contact Ed

   Tucholski, Scoutmaster or Venture Crew Advisor Stacey Tucholski.

 

 

      Chartered Organization:   First Reformed Church              1153 Main   Street,   Fishkill,   New York    12524

 

       Meetings:     Monday Evenings   7:00-8:30 PM during the school year 

                             Brinkerhoff Elementary School                          16 Wedgewood Road   Fishkill, New York 12524          

                             Southern Dutchess & Putnam Sportsman’s Club     Cedar Hill Road   Wappingers Falls, NY  12590  

 

 

 

Children’s Community Services

 

   Now that the New Year is here, we have some new things happening at CCS. We had one of our longstanding staff members leave as she and her husband are beginning a new phase of their lives in PA. We were able to fill the slots she left open with current staff and one of our former parents. We look forward to having new opportunities and fun in the months to come.

   Beginning this semester we are hosting three students from Dutchess. We are honored to be chosen to have these students experience early education with us. It is fun working with them and watching them grow in their abilities with children. Each student comes one day per week and is visited by their supervisor on occasion. We also will be hosting students for a “one time” visit several times in the coming months.

  With February approaching, we are anticipating some really special times. The four year old class will be hosting their “Mother’s Tea”. There will be Valentine parties, school pictures and at the end of the month, we will be having our annual Open House. Mark your calendars for Tuesday, February 28th from 6:30-8:00pm for this special event.

   Registration has begun for all of our programs. For more information, please give us a call.

 

Heather Hansen, Director  

 

 

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Dear Friends,                                                                                                                      January 2012

 

      We hope you had a blessed Christmas celebration, remembering the Word made flesh who dwelt among us, so that we could see and touch and understand the message God was communicating to us from the beginning. We enjoyed celebrating with our Nigerien family and spent many hours at church. It is great to be surrounded by brothers and sisters in Christ when you are far from home. We were also reminded of the love shown us by our supporting churches in a very tangible way with Christmas cards and treats appearing in our mailbox! Thanks for remembering us!

         We are now gearing up to host a team of friends from our  Iowa State days who will be helping to finish the ‘new’ guesthouse and get it ready to host its first guests! We are looking forward to working side-by-side with our friends and watching our student workers and others from the EERN and neighborhood interact with the team. One of our friends is also bringing his daughter…our girls are very excited! Please keep the team, their activities, and Jeremy in your prayers.

       I would like to share with you in a bit more detail the story of the clinic…both the temporary clinic where I currently see patients and the permanent clinic that the EERN is hoping to build. When we came to Niger in 2007, I thought I would be working in a rural clinic just outside of Niamey. God obviously had other plans as political issues have kept us from being able to use that clinic. We now see another opening for serving in a sustainable, meaningful way by creating a simple health cooperative. Patients pay about $2 per year and $1 per consultation to receive basic outpatient care. We use one room of our office building as the clinic room but often spill over into several other rooms. The health cooperative and consultation fees go to pay our nurse and some of the overhead of the office. Some medications have been donated but most are purchased from a European organization at a very low cost and resold at cost. The vast majority of our patients are able to pay for the medications they need, even for medications they must take chronically for health problems such as hypertension and diabetes. Already in this simple model we are finding that sustainable, affordable, quality healthcare can be a reality. We have done no advertising outside of the EERN churches in Niamey yet 800 patients are enrolled, the vast majority being Muslims from the surrounding neighborhood. Based on our experience, we truly believe that this model is going to work and will be replicable in the interior of Niger where access to healthcare is much more limited.

  

 

 

 

In addition to being a great service to the neighborhood and a learning laboratory for the EERN for creation of future clinics, the Niamey clinic is a great place to host students, both foreign and Nigerien. Here we can model compassionate care and evidence-based medicine in a way that is practical and hands-on. I am passionate about teaching doctors to ask good questions, find the right answers and apply what they have learned to their patients. This is the ideal setting in which to do this.

More good news…we are overflowing the one room we are using and really need to build a small clinic/hospital. We hired a nurse at the end of February 2011. She is a Christian sister and has proved to be a joy to work with.  In September, Yacouba Mahamane Kakale, a very bright, energetic and busy medical student from the EERN committed to helping us three mornings per week. It is great to have someone else from the church engaged in the work. Please pray for him. We also just received a French medical resident who was planning to go the interior of  Niger but decided to stay in Niamey due to security reasons. He found himself without a place to work at a moment when we really needed help and desiring to prepare someone to cover the clinic during our planned home assignment (April through July 2012—put it on your calendars!). He feels called to medical missions in Niger and was a bit surprised by the way God led him to our clinic but he and we feel that this was a God-ordained change of plans. We are very grateful for his presence, knowledge and enthusiasm. I’m also looking forward to improving my French and knowledge of French medical practices and medications.

Finally, we have been blessed to have a missionary physical therapist from SIM make herself available to us one morning per week. She not only sees patients but will help us prepare for the more complete rehabilitative care we plan to offer in the future. Our focus will be patients with disabilities who do not need surgical care. Two other organizations in town offer surgical therapies but those with such condition as stroke and cerebral palsy fall through the cracks. The EERN has asked the RCA for a fulltime physical therapist to come as a missionary for a three-to-five year term to help with this aspect and the creation of a physical therapy program at the university. Interested or know someone who might be? Please see the contact information that follows.

Anyone can see that one room in the clinic can no longer contain us! The EERN is ready to build a three room clinic with a small gymnasium for physical therapy. A place has been cleared in the front corner of the compound that also contains the CADR office and guesthouse. We are looking at several options for layout and construction materials (concrete or more traditional construction with mud). The construction and finishing of the clinic is estimated to cost around $50,000 (which is higher than the early estimates I’ve shared with some of you). We have about $10,000 raised. Please consider supporting this effort financially.

 To contribute a tax-deductible gift, please write a check payable to the “Reformed Church in America” and write “Niger Medical Ministry” on the memo line. Mail your contribution to: Reformed Church in America, Attn: Finance Department, 4500 60th Street, SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49512 or you can give online at www.rca.org/beebout. Complete donation information; designation: Niger Medical Ministry. For more information, please contact RCA Africa Mission Supervisor, Derrick Jones, djones@rca.org or administrative assistant Sharon Schramel, at sschramel@rca.org.

Four years in and we’re still just getting started yet we praise the Lord for His mercy and grace and the work He has put before us and for you and your support.

 

Grace and peace,

Susan

(for Jeremy, Lydia, Eliza and Abigail)

 

To access extensive information about theBeebouts, or to make a financial gift for their ministry, simply go to www.rca.org/beebout.         

 

 

   Croatia Update

    US move from Croatia distorts ‘normal’ for us

                                       By Nancy Titus

           My elderly father and I, at very different points in our lives, share an amazing number of similarities.   For both of us, everything is a-kilter, a bit distorted, out of proportion.

        Even something as simple as understanding what time it is has us both a little fuddled. My father is 87 and has lived alone for 10 years in a very quiet, rural setting, so it is understandable that he could become confused when he has no natural markers dividing his day or his week. My family and I have made an international move, quickly adjusting our watches but having a little more trouble getting our internal sense precisely matched up to the time on the dial and the day on the calendar.

       We are over the biggest aspects of jetlag, but we are not entirely over the sense of not quite knowing where we are – in time or space or things even deeper.

       That disconnect with our surroundings is part of the normal re-entry adjustment that missionaries returning from abroad go through. In many cases, re-entry can cause a crisis of its own, referred to as reverse culture shock. That is especially true if the mission work was done in an area where there is extreme poverty or hardship. I can easily see that such a situation would almost inevitably induce personal crisis.

       Our mission setting in Croatia was on the surface not so different from the American scene. There, we had nice large grocery stores in which to shop, and we drove to them in the car provided by you for our use. We lived in a house large enough for each of our three children to have his or her own room (something we may not have here), and we routinely had pizza delivered on Friday nights.

       Still, on an essential level it was completely different. The other day, Samuel and I went to buy some supplies for a box we mailed to a friend in Croatia, and as we left the huge store, he commented on how effortless the process was. It is not that the same kind of errand could not have been done in our Croatian context. The mechanics of it would have been more or less the same. Still, a fundamental quality about it was not the same. It is in the way that it was done: the convenience, the friendliness, the array of choices, the low prices, the familiarity. All those things make up some of the background of how we as Americans come to think about things.

       You will be glad to know that in this re-entry adjustment, we are not on our own. The Reformed Church in America, through your continued support, has provided a way for our family to deal with the big and small ways our lives have changed because of our service in Croatia. As part of that, later this month, we will attend a Debriefing and Renewal retreat in the Black Forest area of Colorado Springs.

      This is a program specifically designed for missionaries returning to the United States after service abroad. This time will give our family a chance to stop and reflect on our experiences over the past years as missionaries. It will allow us to process the joys and struggles of cross-cultural living even as we ponder our future ministry and as we give both into the Lord’s hands.

      Also, there will be special sessions for our children. These will be led by those who have lived as missionary kids themselves and understand the special challenges that go with sometimes feeling that the culture of your parents and even your own birthplace is more “foreign” than the “foreign” culture you have grown up in. For our children, the five and a half years they lived in Croatia was a significant part of their lives and sets them apart from their American peers.

     Just as my siblings and I have stepped up to accommodate my father’s changing physical needs at this stage in his life, we are happy that the RCA will help us as we adjust to our new life back in the United States. Thank you for this and your continued prayers for us as we make this transitional journey.

 

 

Eric and Nancy Titus are RCA missionaries in Osijek, Croatia, where they work at the Evangelical Theological Seminary and with the Reformed Christian Church in Croatia. They have three children: Samuel, 17, Valerie, 14, and Penny, 12.