The Parish Visitor

First Reformed Church of Fishkill

1153  Main Street, Fishkill, NY  12524

(845) 896-9836

www.fishkillreformed.org

 

March 2012

 

Dear Friends,

 

On Fat Tuesday/Mardi Gras/Shrove Tuesday, I was surprised when people didn’t know why I was wearing a variety of colorful beads. Though Dutchess County is far removed from New Orleans or Rio di Janeiro where Carnival is spelled with a capital “C,” I had wrongly assumed that more folks than those at the Fishkill Methodist Church and I  were serving up pancakes that day. (Buttermilk blueberry to be exact!)

The ancient tradition of removing sweets and stuff from the household at the beginning of the Lenten season is a long way removed from some of the current traditions of Mardi Gras, with it’s over the top party scene, but the marking of the end of one season and the beginning of another in the church calendar continues to be an important way for us to focus on different aspects of our faith and to give a rhythm to our lives that is different than the beat that the world hears.

The Season of Lent is a time when the church is called to focus on strengthening our faith by practicing the classic Christian disciplines. The Inward Disciplines of meditation, prayer, fasting and study. The Outward Disciplines of simplicity, solitude, submission, and service. The Corporate Disciplines of confession, worship, guidance, and celebration. Other disciplines may be added to this list, but least we get overwhelmed, remember that choosing one or two to focus on is a discipline in itself. And deliberately practicing these disciplines during Lent will make our celebration of Easter, our proclamation of the empty tomb, our hope for the future, even greater. It really will!

I pray you will consider how the Spirit might be inviting you to enter the rhythm of the Season with a bit more focus and discipline on how Christ has called us to live.

 

Pastor's signature2 With prayer and great hope,

 

 

 

 

 

 

P.S. Richard Foster’s book, Celebration of Discipline: Path to Spiritual Growth, is a wonderful resource for learning about practicing the disciplines and I have a couple of loan out.       

 

                                                           

         MARCH  CALENDAR

1

Choir - 7pm

18

Worship - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

4

Worship - Communion - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

Church Membership Class 

20

 Lenten Lunch - Noon

6

Worship & Music Committee - 11am

Lenten Lunch - Noon 

22

Choir - 7pm

7

Bible Study - 10am

Book Study - 4:30pm  

25

Worship - 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

8

Choir - 7 pm 

27

Lenten Lunch - Noon

Consistory - 7:15pm

11

Worship – 10am

Sunday School - 10:15am

Chime Choir - 11:30am

28

Bible Study - 10am

Book Study - 4:30pm

Women of the Church - 7:30pm (*)

13

Lenten Lunch - Noon

29

Choir - 7pm      

 

15

Choir - 7pm

 

30

DCCH Shelter Meal (*) 

               

 DCCH SHELTER MEALS    

         This year our church has been asked to feed the homeless on March 30, June 29,  August 31 and November 30.  The menu for March will be salad, chili, bread and cupcakes. In the past, you have been very generous and once again we would like your support.

          If you are able to help, please call Linda Rush. Thank you. 

       

EASTER LILIES

         If you would like to place Easter Lilies in the church for Easter, please sign up in the entry to the Christian Education Building by March 25. The cost is $8.50 per plant. Please pay when ordering to Women of the Reformed Church.  If you have any questions, please talk to Dorrie Hansen or Liz Alexander.   

 

  PALM  SUNDAY CONCERT  

On April 1st, 2012 at 3pm, the choir will be presenting two of Gabriel Faurés most beautiful works as part of the Lenten season. One of his most famous is the     “Requiem” which includes  the well known  “Rie Jesu” (Blessed Jesus) and “Agnes Dei” (Lamb of God). The other work is “Cantique de Jean Racine” which asks for Christ’s blessing on the people as they kneel in  adoration. These truly are lovely sacred chord pieces that will ensure your participation in the Lenten journey. Save the date: Palm Sunday, April 1st at 3pm. The choir is working hard on the music and will appreciate your attendance.
                                                                                                     Connie Lacey, Minister of Music

    

If you or anyone you know needs, on a temporary basis, a ride to a doctor,  a meal delivered, a friendly supportive visit or phone call , please  call a  deacon  closest to you:

            Linda Baron (evenings), Wappingers                                     Stan Saya, Wappingers Falls

    John Houston, Hopewell Jct.                                                Karen Twohig, Beacon

    Jay Wright, Fishkill                                                               Stephen Falcone, Wappingers Falls

 

 

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                              COFFEE HOUR             

 

 

 

 In the list of dates and names below, the first name on the list serves as the host. This means calling the other names on the list for that day and seeing who will bring what, including juice and milk.

 If someone on the list has a commitment before or after worship, than the group can make arrangements as to who will set up, who will keep the creamer pitcher full and who will clean up.

 Maisie Minot makes sure the coffeepots are on and full. Those serving make sure the coffee pots are cleaned and all the tables and counters wiped down with the water/bleach mixture found in the spray bottle. Please take the dirty dish towels home for a wash and bring them back the next week.

If you are not able to do the coffee hour on your scheduled date, please find a replacement and call the church office with the name of your replacement. If you have any concerns regarding your availability at this time to do coffee hour due to health or other large issues, please contact Karen Twohig.

   If anyone plans to bring food to coffee hour for a special occasion, please notify the host for that date. Thanks to everyone for your continued hospitality!

 

MARCH                                                                                   APRIL

  4   H - Byers, Skinner, Gillert                                             1  H - Van Nostrand, Suggitt, DiYeso                                                      

 11  100th Anniversary of Girl Scouts                              8  Easter - H - Twohig, Nolting, Minot, Hoffman

       H - Houston, Albra, Doerr                                             15 H - Harty, Porter, Kayson

 18  H - Aronow, Rudberg, Schmidt                                   22 H - Wright, Baron, Jones-Wynn   

 25  H - D. Hansen, Skorewicz, H. Hansen                       29 H - Badowski, Simmons, Alexander    

              

     

PRAYER VIGIL             

          This year we will again be having a Prayer Vigil from Maundy Thursday through Good Friday. It is a wonderful time for you to talk with our Lord in the quiet of a special place.

 On April 5th, Maundy Thursday, the hours will be from 9PM to 5AM in the safety of your homes. On April 6th, Good Friday, the Prayer Vigil hours will be from 6AM to 3PM in the Sanctuary.

          It is our hope that all the hourly spots will be filled on the sign up sheet in the entry Way of the church. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we had to add more names to each hour?

 

 

   EASTER STORY SCAVENGER HUNT

            The Christian Education Committee would like all children to join us for an Easter Hunt on

   Sunday, April 8th, after worship, and at the beginning of coffee hour. All kids will gather to hear

   the Easter Story, followed by a fun scavenger hunt to look for items mentioned in the story.

   Please have your children join us for this special and fun time.   

 

 

 

Notes from February Consistory Meeting

 

·  Elder Wendy Doerr led devotions. Reminding us of how important it is for us to know

each other, to take time to hear each other’s stories, she shared some highlights of her life and how the church has been there in the hard times and the good times. Psalm 118:24.  

·  CCS request to sell sweatshirts and T-shirts with the school logo was approved.

·  The anniversary committee has designated October 14-16, 2016 as the BIG weekend

for our 300th anniversary celebration.

·                          Steeple repair will begin mid-March and the initial deposit of $54,000 was sent to the

company.

·                          On Easter, during coffee hour, the Education committee will hold an Eggless Easter Hunt.

· Treasurer’s report for January showed revenues at $24,793.17 and expenses at $20,298.28. Revenue was higher than normal because some annual pledges for 2012 were received at the end of 2011.

· Next regular Consistory meeting is March 27th, 7:15pm. Elders will meet at 6:30pm.

 

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     Thank you to my church family for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers during my recent total hip replacement surgery.  I’m back on my feet and feeling very well. Thank you Pastor Gloria for bringing me the walker and other items that helped in my recovery at home.

     I’m so happy I have such a wonderful church family.

                                                                                          Sincerely,

                                                                                          Donna Benjamin-Lovelett  

            

                                                                      

                                                               Women of the Church

 

     The Women of the church will meet in the Fellowship Hall on Wednesday, March 28 at 7:30pm.  We will have a program on Acts of Kindness. Refreshments will be served. All women of the church are welcome!

     The Spring Conference of the Reformed Church Women of the Hudson Valley will be held at the Rhinebeck Reformed Church on Saturday, April 14.  Registration will begin at 9:15, breakfast at 9:30, and the program will be at 10:15.  The Rev. Nick Miles will speak on Native American Spirituality.  The cost will be $6.00.  The offering will go directly to the following Reformed churches that suffered damage from Hurricane Irene: Middleburgh, Prattsville and Schoharie.  We will also be collecting toilet paper, soap, toothpaste and other toiletries for the food closet at Rhinebeck.  Reservations are requested by Monday, April 9.  Please watch for the sign up sheet in the entry to the Christian Education Building.

 

 

                                                                    Fishkill Food Pantry

                        

        Again, this year the Feinstein Foundation of Rhode Island has posted its challenge.  The Foundation will divide 1 million dollars among hunger fighting agencies nationwide that raise donations in response to the challenge. Gifts in the form of cash, checks and food items received from March 1st to April 30th, count.  During the first weeks of 2012, the Pantry has been receiving record numbers of requests for help. Meeting the Feinstein Challenge will provide an opportunity to increase the value of donations during March and April.

                        

                                                   from  the Worship & Music Committee

 Worship Greeters & Readers for March:

          March 4    Greeters:  Donna Benjamin Lovelett and Peter Donoghue  

                             Reader:    Peter Donoghue

          March 11   Greeters & Reader:   Girl Scouts  (Girl Scout Sunday)

          March 18   Greeters:  Julie Sanders and Linda Rush

                              Reader:   Linda Rush

          March 25   Greeters:  Alexa & Wendy Doerr

                              Reader:    Wendy Doerr       

        

 

 

Dear Friends of  Menaul School,

 

  Thank you so much for helping Menaul School Students!  Our labels and box top programs  continue to be successful and I would like to update you about them. Many of you have  been faithful in helping us for several years and we hope you will continue to do so.

  

  First is the General Mills Box Tops for Education program. This program pays Menaul ten cents for each box top symbol submitted. Since we began collecting box tops, Menaul has received over $15,000. General Mills has added many products other than cereal, which increases our earning potential.

 

  Also there is the ongoing Campbell’s Labels for Education program. Please note that Campbell’s no longer accepts the entire soup can label, but only the UPC product code and/or coupon. Items we have received are musical instruments, maps and globes, sports equipment and, most recently, a video/data projector for use in our science program, and we have a goal of acquiring two more of these (at a “cost” of 90,000 labels each!) Thanks to your efforts and Campbell’s, we will reach our goal.

 

  Thank you for your participation in these programs. We know your time is valuable and we are grateful for the time and effort you give to us.

 

    Sincerely,

    Phil Taylor

    Volunteer, Office of Institutional Advancement

    Menaul School

    301 Menaul Blvd.  NE

    Albuquerque, New Mexico                    

 

    **  Note:  We will now also be collecting Box Tops for Education for Menaul School  

  

 

   William Edward Rapalje Portrait Donated to the Van Wyck Homestead Museum

 

                               By Willa Skinner – Town of Fishkill Historian

 

      A most valued acquisition is the recent gift of an early 19th century portrait of William Edward Rapalje of Fishkill (1802 – 1833). The framed oil painting by an

anonymous artist was donated to the Fishkill Historical Society by Lois White Trebisacci of Westerly, Rhode Island, bringing together the story of the Van Wyck – Rapalje connection.

      William Rapalje was the son of Jane Van Wyck Rapalje (1782-1806), daughter of Isaac Van Wyck. She was the second wife of Richard Rapalje who first married

her older sister Laetita, but Laetita died at a young age, leaving an infant daughter who survived only a short time after her mother’s death. Richard then married Laetita’s sister Jane who bore three children, William, Isaac, and John Augustus. John Augustus died at birth, his mother Jane seven weeks later, and Isaac later died in 1809 at the age  of five, leaving William as the lone survivor of the younger generation until his father married for a third time. The bride was Ann Currie, daughter of New York City merchant Archibald Currie. Five children were born of this marriage.

       Upon his father’s death in 1825, young William was given the responsibility of acting as guardian for his younger brothers and sisters and managing the vast Rapalje

estate, called Brooklands, along the picturesque rapids of the Fishkill Creek, which  recently became Merritt Industrial Park. (The family mansion, Robinia, built in 1800 for

Richard’s first wife, Laetita, was taken down in 2001 for a new motel).

        As a youth, William did not return to his studies at Union College in Schenectady, in order to manage the huge Rapalje farm. He was described as a handsome, scholarly young man, a “polished gentleman”, pillar of the community, a gentleman farmer whose tenants carried out the work on the farm. He did not enjoy robust health. In 1830, his physical condition worsening, he left for Europe, hoping the sea voyage and medical advice that he sought there would improve his health, leaving his good friend and neighbor, John Van Wyck, in charge of his affairs here. On June 2, 1833, on his return home, he died aboard ship and was buried at sea. A memorial monument stands in the Rapalje plot of the Dutch Reformed Church graveyard.

      “In 1830,” according to research by the late Village of Fishkill historian Margaret Somers, “William Rapalje planned a new street and planted maple trees on each side of the proposed course.  Due to illness and his death in 1833, it was never completed.  In 1941, the road was constructed through the lane of maple trees by Royal Gay acting for the Rapalje heirs.”

      The street was named  “Rapalje Road” in honor of William Edward Rapalje.

 

 

 

                                                                   “Songs for Alec”

 

          On March 24 at 7:00pm, John Jay High School Proscenium presents “Songs for Alec”, an  evening to benefit Alec Lombardi, the son of Michael Lombardi, grandson of Carol Lombardi  and great-grandson of Helen Lesko.  The admission is $10.  If you can’t attend, contributions  may be sent to John Jay High School Proscenium, 2012 Route 52, Hopewell Junction, NY  12533.

          Two-year-old Alec Lombardi has Neuroblastoma, a childhood cancer. He has completed seven rounds of chemo, and is currently under going three weeks of surgeries for bone marrow transplants.  Alec and his mom will then spend two months at All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg, Florida.  Out patient radiation will follow that, and the last step in Alec’s treatment is Ameno therapy.  Please support Alec, his family and doctors with your prayers and support.

        More information is available on Michael R. Lombardi’s Facebook blog. There is also a  “Prayers for Alec” Facebook page.    

    

 

           

                                                       from your Stewardship Committee

                 Stop Fracking – Protect New York’s Water & Landscapes

 

Fracking is the fracturing of the earth thousands of feet below the surface to release natural gas and oil.

It is one step in releasing gas and oil from deep within the earth. In hydraulic fracturing clean water mixed

with sand and chemicals, is injected under high pressure into the earth to create fissures that allow the

resources to move freely from where it is trapped. Clean water returns polluted with salts and chemicals

and the land is disturbed. Chemically polluted water goes into the acquifers, and there is also surface

water pollution, just to mention two of fracking’s effects on our environment.

 

We can help stop fracking in NY by calling Governor Cuomo’s office to voice our opinions.

Join in    “DON’T  FRACK  FRIDAYS” or call more frequently. The governor’s office can

be reached at (518) 474-8390. Follow the steps and be prepared to speak your opinion on hydraulic fracking. It only takes a few minutes and will help preserve the beautiful mountains and landscapes we are blessed to enjoy. The more frequently we call, the louder our voices will sound.    

 

          

                                           Literacy Volunteers  

 

 Literacy Connections (formerly Literacy Volunteers – DC) are hoping to recruit tutors to teach Basic Reading and Writing or English to immigrants. Interested

 people can take the training that is most convenient for them, to become tutors and help people who live close by, improve their literacy skills. For more

 information about the training program, please see the posting on the bulletin board in Fellowship Hall.   

     

 

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BSA Troop 65

Venture Crew 65

First Reformed Church

Fishkill, New York

 

March News

             

Troop 65 and Crew 65 attended services at the First Reformed Church on February 5th  for Scout Sunday and hosted coffee hour in the Perry Fellowship Hall complete with a campfire sculpture made of bagels!

 

 

Venture Crew 65 would like to thank the First Reformed Church for use of the Perry Fellowship Hall on February 11th for their spaghetti dinner. The fundraiser was a great success. The members of the crew learned about cooking for a large group, making homemade meatballs and the art of washing dishes. The Crew raised $780. The money is going to go towards purchasing uniform shirts and with little if no money laid out of pocket by the crew members. We’d also like to thank all who came to the dinner and enjoyed a good meal.

 

 

Amanda Giusto will be receiving her Venturing Silver Award at her Court of Honor on April 14, 2012. If interesting in attending, please contact Frank Giusto. The deadline to RSVP is 3/24/12.

 

 

The Troop is looking forward to their annual Electronics campout at the end of February, complete with the traditional turkey dinner on Saturday evening.

 

If you would like more information regarding scouting opportunities, activities, or service projects, please check out our website at www.troop65fishkill.scoutlander.com or contact Ed Tucholski, Scoutmaster or Venture Crew Advisor Stacey Tucholski.

 

 

    Chartered Organization:   First   Reformed   Church                      1153   Main   Street   Fishkill,  New  York   12524

 

Meetings:    Monday Evenings 7:00-8:30 PM during the school year

Brinkerhoff Elementary School                                   16 Wedgewood Road   Fishkill, New York  12524

  Southern Dutchess & Putnam Sportsman’s Club       Cedar Hill Road   Wappingers Falls, NY  12590

 

 

       Croatia Update

    Unpacking begins as Croatian shipment arrives

                                  By Nancy Titus

Our truck came today! Boxes packed up before Christmas were opened this afternoon to reveal

mementos of our life in Croatia.

As I unpacked a few of them, I wondered how others would see this eclectic assortment of things  we wanted badly enough to ship across the ocean. Even my husband made jokes about some of it, but as I replied to him, if we had lived a champagne life in Croatia, our mementos would reflect that. As it was, ours was a mustard-glass kind of life, and the things we brought to remember it by are, well, glasses that literally held mustard.

I really like that.

We have European-style coffee mugs with no handles that came from McDonald’s, “ice cream shovels” as we call the usual piece of silverware used for eating sladoled, and a slightly stained tablecloth that served as a backdrop for Croatian lessons and homeschool as well as countless family dinners. Just seeing its aqua blue plaid transported me to my Croatian dining room and instantly brought to mind Kristina Koronsovac, our Croatian tutor who was often at our house working with us to learn the language.

Sure, we also have some items on the other end of the scale, typical things tourists would buy like the small selection of Bohemian crystal from Prague or the linen milled locally in our region of Slavonia. But most of what we brought are just mundane items that we used every day and that I think will anchor us in years to come to this wonderful and challenging experience we had in Croatia. Like the items themselves, our time in Croatia was much more about the people and things of humble means than the extravagant Europe seen by tourists.

So far, we have only had time to unpack a selected few boxes, checking the most breakable items in case we needed to make a claim with our shipping company. As I write, we still have in front of us the gathering of other materials from their resting places in Oklahoma, Texas, and New York, all the lifting, hauling and moving of boxes and sorting of items as we find a new place for them to be.

Along with the physical unpacking, of course, there is a much larger and slower emotional unpacking of our experiences that will occur over the months and years to come. As you read this, we will have just returned from a re-entry retreat, which will be helpful as our family begins that process. So the deeper meanings will have to wait for a later time.

Since I am writing about unpacking, you are probably wondering where this is being done. I am happy to report that Eric has accepted a call as pastor of St. John’s Reformed Church in Upper Red Hook, New York.

Accepting this call is like coming home. We have had ministry connections with this church for years. For one thing, it is one of our Partner-in-Mission churches, and in addition to regular prayer and financial support, the church has sent us special project funds that have allowed us to provide students with books, like The Hiding Place and Bruchko for my English language reading seminars.

Even before that, though, we were connected with St. John’s because it is part of the Mid-Hudson Classis, where we have belonged since first arriving in New York 13 years ago. The church is even in the same county where Eric served as a pastor before becoming a missionary, so moving there is going back to familiar places even if they are now viewed from a different perspective. We hope to move in and begin our lives there by late March.

Meanwhile back in Croatia, as many of you have probably read, our friends are experiencing record cold and snow. Amazingly, in Osijek, they have three feet of snow! That is unheard of in that region. Such harsh conditions means a lot of people are struggling to stay warm this winter. Please keep them in your

prayers.

 

Eric and Nancy Titus are RCA missionaries in Osijek, Croatia, where they work at the Evangelical Theological Seminary and with the Reformed Christian Church in Croatia. They have three children: Samuel, 17, Valerie, 14, and Penny, 12.